The Journey Begins: Our Decision to Have a Baby
Hello, dear readers!
Welcome to The Kiddie Chic blog! As a new mum, I’m thrilled to share my journey with you, starting with the significant decision I made to have a baby.
Changing My Mindset
For a long time, I had been pretty firm in my belief that I didn’t want children. But everything changed when I met my partner, who already had a child. Watching his pride in his son, especially when his little one accomplished even the simplest tasks, sparked something in me. I realised that I might miss out on this incredible experience and could potentially regret it for the rest of my life.
Navigating the Conversation
Initially, my partner wasn’t keen on having another baby, but after many discussions, he began to understand my perspective. We both had goals we wanted to achieve before starting a family, and I never pressured him to begin trying. After all, as I often heard, there’s never a perfect time for a baby. Then one fine day, he surprised me by expressing his willingness to start trying.
The Journey to Pregnancy
It took us five months to conceive. Each month was filled with anticipation; I would get so excited and find myself browsing The Kiddie Chic particularly the organic cotton category for the cutest outfits ( my favourites pieces shown below :) ) and essentials. I’d dream about dressing my future baby in adorable pieces, imagining how they’d look in our favourite styles. Unfortunately, each month ended with disappointment when my period arrived. The first few months were tough, especially when I felt those familiar cramps. But after some reflection, I decided to enjoy this time and take it day by day. My ob-gyn confirmed that everything was well on my end, which helped me maintain a positive outlook.
The Big Moment
Five months later, I woke up one morning feeling demotivated. With only a few days until my expected period, I decided to take a test. The result came back negative, and though I felt upset, I tried to move on. But then my period didn’t arrive, which was unusual for me. After waiting two more days, I bought another test and decided to take it first thing in the morning.
That night, the firstborn had a nightmare and woke us up at 3 AM. As I made my way to the bathroom, I felt compelled to take the test. To my surprise, the test showed a positive result immediately! Overcome with joy, I couldn’t resist calling my partner in. We hugged and kissed in sheer excitement, then returned to bed, both unable to sleep as we buzzed with anticipation. We decided to wait before telling his firstborn, wanting to avoid any disappointment if things didn’t go as planned.
Looking Ahead with The Kiddie Chic
Now that I’m a mum, I can’t help but reflect on how The Kiddie Chic has been a part of this journey. From the cute outfits I fantasised about during those trying months to the essentials I now rely on, this web-shop has become my go-to for all things baby-related. I’m eager to share product highlights and tips on choosing the best for your little ones in future posts.
Moral of the Story
As I share my journey, I want to remind you to embrace your own path to parenthood. Enjoy those beautiful, intimate moments with your partner, this time is precious! Remember, it’s important to avoid viewing intimacy as merely a means to an end. If it starts to feel like a chore, it can negatively impact your relationship. Don’t hesitate to consult a gynaecologist if you have concerns, but also strive to remain patient and savour the quality time with your partner. Whether it takes weeks or months, every step is a part of your unique journey.
Thank you for joining me on this incredible adventure. I’d love to hear your stories and experiences too, feel free to share in the comments!
Until next time,
The Kiddie Chic